"In true meditation there is no ambition to stir up
thoughts, nor is there an ambition to suppress them. They are just allowed to
occur spontaneously… The become the expression of the precision and the clarity
of the awakened state of mind.
"The exciting, colorful, dramatic quality of the
emotions captures our attention as if we were watching an absorbing film show.
In the practice of meditation, we neither encourage emotions nor repress them.
By seeing them clearly, by allowing them to be as they are, we no longer permit
them to serve as a means of entertaining and distracting us."
-- Chogyam
Trungpa in Cutting
Through Spiritual Materialism, Shambala, 2002.
"The understanding of what you actually are is far more
important than the pursuit of what [you think] you should be. Because in understanding
what you are, there begins a spontaneous process of transformation. Whereas in
becoming what you think you should be, there is... only a
continuation of the same old thing in a different form. ... [It] is only the
pursuit of a self-projection [and] a postponement of understanding what
is."
-- Jiddu
Krishnamurti in This
Matter of Culture, Victor Gollancz, 1974.
"Although the variety of meditation procedures seems
infinite, most writers on the subject divide them into two principle
categories: concentration and mindfulness (or insight). Concentrative
meditation focuses attention on a single target, such as a candle flame, a
series of syllables spoken aloud or silently (a mantrum), an emotion such
as reverence or love, or sensations such as those accompanying breathing or
walking. Most Yogic [Hindu] meditations are concentrative.
"Mindfulness or insight meditation makes no attempt to
control the mind content but endeavors to maintain an even, uninvolved
attentiveness to whatever thoughts, sensations, or emotions appear
spontaneously. Most Buddhist meditations are of this type.
"Some forms of meditation combine the two approaches,
as when a sensory focus on breathing is coupled with noting distractions that
arise. But in no form of meditation does anyone engage in discursive,
analytical thought. ... Meditation is designed to counter the usual use of the
mind for problem solving and conceptualization, activities especially marked in
the West."
-- Arthur
Deikman in The
Observing Self: Mysticism and Psychotherapy, Beacon Press, 1982.
"The route to mindfulness is present-centered
attention. Mindfulness is being 'willfully passive.' We deliberately decide to
observe present experience without interfering with it... [B]y bringing theses
experiences into consciousness, we will be able... to transcend them, to know
them, to complete them and to move on."
-- Ron
Kurtz in Body-Centered
Psychotherapy: The Hakomi Method, LifeRhythm, 1990.
"Chogyam Trungpa... stressed that... to return again
and again to the immediacy of our experience... uncovers a complete openness to
things just as they are without conceptual padding. It allows us to lighten up
and to appreciate our world and ourselves unconditionally... to become one with
it rather than split ourselves in two, one part of us rejecting or judging
another part... His instruction on how to relate with the thoughts was [to]...
leave them free to dissolve back into space without making meditation into a
self-improvement project."
-- Pema
Chodron in Taking
the Leap: Freeing Ourselves from Old Habits and Fears, Shambala, 2010.
"Don't battle with inattention, don't try and say, 'I
must be attentive' - it's childish. Know that you are inattentive, be aware,
choicelessly, that you are inattentive. What of it? But the moment in that
inattention there is action, be aware of that action.
-- Jiddu
Krishnamurti, from a public talk in San
Diego, California, 1970.
"The practice of self-observation begins with a desire
and resolution on your part: 'I want to know what really is,
regardless of how I prefer things to be. ... In its most general form, the
practice of self-observation is simply a matter of paying attention to
everything, noticing whatever happens, being open-mindedly curious about all
that is going on. This everything will almost always be a mixture of
perceptions of external events and your internal reactions to them. ...
Whatever is, is an appropriate focus for observation.”
-- Charles
Tart in Waking
Up: Overcoming Obstacles to Human Potential, New Science Library, 1987.
"To practice insight
meditation, one should restrict one's attention to the bare notice of
sensations and thoughts. One's attitude should be completely receptive to
whatever contents arise in the mind. ... [D]istracting thoughts or feelings may
be noted, registered, and left behind. As this process goes on, the meditator
has a succession of realizations about the nature of mind and self."
-- Arthur
Deikman in The
Observing Self: Mysticism and Psychotherapy, Beacon Press, 1982.
"We have not come together to satisfy our intellects.
This we can do through books and second-hand information. We have come to
satisfy the inner need to know ourselves, to share our oneness, to hear
directly what life is. To receive life we must be open to it. Life can only be
understood by life. The means that being open is itself life. ... Nothing that
can be known has existence in itself. It depends on a knower. The knower is
consciousness. Only consciousness never changes. We must find out what never
changes in us."
"The mind cannot go beyond itself through its own will.
At a certain point it can no longer stay in the realm of thinking and there
comes a moment when we find ourselves at the threshold of being. It is only a
spontaneous giving up. You will find yourself in a state of waiting without
waiting. Then you will be open to the openness. But this is not a process of
will. What you are looking for can never be asserted, can never be objective,
can never be affirmed. ... It is better to say, "I don't know." In
this not knowing there is real knowing."
-- Jean
Klein in Beyond
Knowledge, Third Millennium, 1994.
"So when you listen to a thought, you are aware not
only of the thought but also of yourself as the witness of the thought. A new
dimension of consciousness has come in. ... The though then loses its power
over you and quickly subsides, because you are no longer energizing the mind
through identification with it. This is the beginning of the end of compulsive
thinking."
-- Eckhart
Tolle in The
Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, New World Library,
1999.
"While the mind may try to escape from conditioning
itself through meditation, Krishnamurti says,
it simply creates in the very attempt another prison of methods to follow and
goals to achieve. He opposes techniques of every kind and urges the putting
aside of all authority and tradition: From them, one can only collect more
knowledge, while understanding is needed instead. According to Krishnamurti, no
technique can free the mind, for any effort by the mind only weaves another
net. He ... emphatically opposes concentration methods:
"'By repeating Amen or Om or Coca-Cola indefinitely you
obviously have a certain experience because by repetition the mind becomes
quiet ... It is one of the favorite gambits of some teachers of meditation to
insist upon their pupils learning concentration, that is, fixing the mind on
one thought and driving out all other thoughts. This is a most stupid, ugly
thing, which any schoolboy can do because he is forced to.'
"The 'meditation' Krishnamurti advocates has no system,
least of all 'repetition and imitation.' He proposes as both means and end a
'choiceless awareness,' the 'experiencing of what is without naming.' This
state is beyond all thought; all thought, he says, belongs to the past, and
meditation is always in the present. To be in the present, the mind must
relinquish the habits acquired out of the urge to be secure... One must let go
of at thought and imagining. ...
"'You have to watch, as you watch a lizard going by,
walking across the wall, seeing all of its four feet, how it sticks to the
wall, you have to watch it, and as you watch it, you see all the movements, the
delicacy of its movements. So in the same way, watch your thinking, do not
correct it, do not suppress it -- do not say it is too hard -- just watch it...
When the mind realizes the totality of its own conditioning ... then all its
movements come to an end: It is completely still, without any desire, without
any compulsion, without any motive.'"
-- Daniel
Goleman introducing and quoting Jiddu
Krishnamurti in The
Meditative Mind: The Varieties of Meditative Experience, Puttnam &
Sons, 1977.
"We must be willing to be completely ordinary people,
which means accepting ourselves as we are without trying to become greater,
purer, more spiritual, more insightful. If we can accept our imperfections as
they are, quite ordinarily, then we can use them as part of the path. But if we
try to get rid of our imperfections, then they will be enemies, obstacles on
the road to our 'self-improvement.' ... The attitude you bring to spirituality
should be natural, ordinary, without ambition. ... And the same is true for the
breath. If we can see it as it is, without trying to use it to improve
ourselves, then it becomes a part of the path because we are no longer using it
as a tool of our personal ambition."
-- Chogyam
Trungpa in The
Myth of Freedom and the Way of Meditation, Shambala, 1976.
"We seem to have numerous 'I's. There is the I of 'I
want,' the I of 'I wrote a letter,' the I of 'I am a psychiatrist' or 'I am
thinking.' But there is another I that is basic, that underlies desires,
activities, and physical characteristics. This is the subjective sense
of our existence. It is different from self-image,
the body, passions, fears, social category -- these are aspects of our person
that we usually refer to when we speak of the self, but they do not refer to the
core of our conscious being, they are not the origin of our sense of personal
existence."
"Awareness is something apart from, and different from,
all that of which we are aware: thoughts, emotions, images, sensations,
desires, and memory. Awareness is the ground in which the mind's contents
manifest themselves; they appear in it and disappear once again. ...careful
introspection reveals that the objects of awareness -- sensations, thoughts,
memories, images and emotions -- are constantly changing and superseding each
other. In contrast, awareness continues independently of any specific mental
contents."
-- Arthur Deikman in Meditations
on a Blue Vase, Fearless Books, 2014.
"While meditation may be cultivated as a formal
practice once or twice a day..., the aim is to bring a fresh awareness into
everything we do. Whether walking or standing still, sitting or laying down,
alone or in company, resting or working, I try to maintain that same careful
attention. ... Awareness is a process of deepening self-acceptance. It is
neither a cold, surgical examination of life nor a means of becoming perfect.
Whatever it observes, it embraces. There is nothing unworthy of acceptance. ...
But to embrace hatred does not mean to indulge it. To embrace hatred is to
accept it for what it is: a disruptive but transient state of mind. Awareness
observes it jolt into being, coloring consciousness and gripping the body. The
heart accelerates, the breath becomes shallow and jagged, and an almost
physical urge to react dominates the mind. At the same time, the frenzy is set
against a dark, quiet gulf of hurt, humiliation, and shame. Awareness notices
all this without condoning or condemning, repressing or expressing. It
recognizes that just as hatred arises, so will it pass away."
-- Stephen
Batchelor in Buddhism
Without Beliefs: A Contemporary Guide to Awakening, Penguin-Berkley, 1997.
"Then -- this being a retreat and me having spent much
of each day observing my feelings -- I immediately, almost reflexively,
examined the melancholy. And right away the feeling was drained of force. It
didn't immediately disappear, but it now seemed like nothing more than physical
waves, neither good nor bad, moving slowly through my body."
-- Robert
Wright in Why
Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Buddhism and Enlightenment,
Simon & Schuster, 2017.
"...if we watch the mind as though it were a film
projected on a screen, as concentration deepens, it may go into a kind of slow
motion and allow us to see more of what is happening. This then deepens our
awareness and further allows us to observe the film almost frame by frame, to
discover how one thought leads imperceptively to the next. We see how thoughts
we took to be 'me' or 'mine' are just an ongoing process. This perspective help
break our deep identification with the seeming solid reality of the movie of
the mind. As we become less engrossed in the melodrama, we see it's just flow,
and can watch it all as it passes. We are not drawn into the action by the
passing of judgmental comment... or impatience. When we simply see -- moment to
moment -- what's occurring, observing without judgment or preference, we don't
get lost thinking... [and] we begin developing... choiceless
awareness. We see intention, out of which action comes. We observe the
natural process of mind and discover how much of what we so treasured to be
ourselves is essentially impersonal phenomena passing by."
-- Stephen
Levine in A
Gradual Awakening, Anchor-Doubleday, 1979.
"Awareness and equanimity --
this is Vipassana
meditation. When practiced together. they lead to liberation from
suffering. ... We must become aware of the totality of mind and matter in their
subtlest nature. For this purpose it is not enough merely to be mindful of
superficial aspects of body and mind, such a physical movements or thoughts. We
must develop awareness of sensations throughout the body and maintain
equanimity toward them. If we are aware but lack equanimity, then the more
conscious we become of the sensations within and the more sensitive we become
to them, the more likely we are to react, thereby increasing suffering. On the
other hand, if we have equanimity, but know nothing of the sensations within,
then this equanimity is only superficial, concealing reactions that are constantly
going on unknown in the depths of the mind. ... We seek to be conscious of
everything that happens within and at the same time not to react to it,
understanding that it will change."
-- William Hart channeling S.
N. Goenka in The
Art ofLiving: Vipassana Meditation as Taught by S. N. Goenka, HarperOne,
1987.
"The reason [point
of concentration] meditation... is so popular is because people really want
something mechanical that will change their state of consciousness. There are
many things that can do it, but it's really very different from living
awareness. Most of what goes on in the name of [point of concentration]
meditation is just another tranquilizer. It's a way of cooling oneself out, removing
oneself from what is, removing oneself from seeing totally the living moment...
so that one gets lost in the projections of one's own mind. ... Concentration,
which always involves effort, is not meditation. Concentration is a narrowing of
the spectrum of awareness, a strengthening of thought. ... Real meditation is
a widening of the spectrum of awareness that excludes nothing; there
is never effort or force."
-- Joel
Kramer in The
Passionate Mind: A Manual for Living Creatively with One's Self, North
Atlantic Books, 1974.
"...the brain changes physically in response to
experience, and new mental skills can be acquired with intentional effort, with
focused awareness and concentration. Experience activates neural
firing, which in turn leads to the production of proteins that enable new
connections to be made among neurons, in the process called neuroplasticity.
... The implication is that neuroplasticity is activated by attention itself,
... [and] by sensory input.
"At the heart of this process... is a form of internal
'tuning in' to oneself that enables people to become their best friend. ... You
can have those thoughts and feelings and also be able to just notice them with
the wisdom that they are not your identity. They are simply part of your mind's
experience. ... The aim-and-sustain skill developed during observation enables
you to hold your attention steady, to stabilize the mind. The next step is to
distinguish the quality of awareness from the object of attention.
"Without preconceived ideas or judgments, this mindful
awareness, this receptive attention, brings us into a tranquil place where we
can be aware of and know all elements of our experience."
-- Daniel
Siegel in Mindsight:
The New Science of Personal Transformation, Bantam, 2010.
"...so long as I do not understand myself, I have no
basis for thought, and all my search will be in vain. I can escape into illusions,
I can run away from contention, strife, struggle; I can worship another; I can
look for my salvation through somebody else. But so long as I am ignorant of
myself, so long as I am unaware of the total process of myself, I have no
[accurate] basis for thought, for affection, for action. ... Without knowing
yourself, without knowing your own ways of thinking and why you think certain
things, without knowing the background of your conditioning and why you have
certain beliefs about art and religion, about your country and your neighbor
and about yourself, how can you truly think about anything.
"The more you know about yourself, the more clarity
there is. Self-knowledge has no end -- you don't come to an achievement, you
don't come to a conclusion. It is an endless river. ... Only when the
mind is tranquil -- through self-knowledge... -- only then, in that
tranquility, in that silence, can reality come into being."
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti in The
Krishnamurti Reader, Penguin-Arcana, 1954.
"Meditation originates and culminates in the everyday
sublimes. I have little interest in achieving states of sustained concentration
in which the sensory richness of experience is replaced by pure introspective
rapture. I have no interest in reciting mantras, visualizing Buddhas or
mandalas, gaining out-of-body experiences, reading others people's thoughts,
practicing lucid dreaming, or channeling psychic energies through chakras, let
alone letting my consciousness be absorbed in the transcendent perfection of
the Unconditioned. Meditation is about embracing what is happening to this
organism as it touches its environment in this moment."
-- Stephen
Batchelor in After
Buddhism: Rethinking the Dharma for a Secular Age, Yale U. Press, 2015.
"The expansion of consciousness does not lie in the
quantitative accumulation of experiences, but in a qualitative change in the
person experiencing... Each time you climb to a higher vantage point the range
of your vision is enlarged and your understanding of your entire situation is
altered. You see things from a more encompassing perspective which allows you
to be less concerned and anxious and enables you to relate to your environment
in terms of how it really is rather than how you imagined it to be from a more
limited point of view."
-- Swami Rama and Swami Ajaya in Creative
Use of Emotion, Himalayan Institute Press, 1987.
"Real meditation is the highest form of intelligence.
It is not a matter of sitting cross-legged in a corner with your eyes shut or
standing on your head or whatever it is you do. To meditate is to be completely
aware as you are walking, as you are riding in the bus, as you are working in
your office or in your kitchen; completely aware of the words you use, the
gestures you make, the manner of your talk, the way you eat, and how you push
people around. To be choicelessly aware of everything about you and within
yourself, is meditation."
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti in The
Collected Works, Vol. XIII, Krishnamurti Foundations, 2014.
"'How come nothing happened for me? What a dud I am!'
... But often it is those who said they didn't 'get it' so easily who later
display considerable insight into that which blocks the qualities they were
attempting to cultivate. They may well have seen the nature of that which
limits forgiveness or mercy or letting go or healing more clearly than one who
'in a lucky moment' was able to get some depth of experience of the qualities
they were examining. It is often when it 'doesn't work' that the work to be
done is most clearly seen."
-- Stephen Levine in Healing
into Life and Death, Anchor Doubleday, 1987.
"Meditation is inquiry into the very being of the
meditator. As human beings we are all capable of inquiry, of discovery, and
this whole process is meditation. Meditation is inquiry into the very being of
the meditator. You cannot meditate without self-knowledge, without being aware
of the ways of your own mind, from the superficial responses to the most
complex subtleties of thought. I am sure it is not really difficult to know, to
be aware of oneself, but it is difficult for most of us because we are so
afraid to inquire, to grope, to search out. Our fear is not of the unknown, but
of letting go of the known. It is only when the mind allows the known to fade
away that there is complete freedom from the known, and only then is it
possible for the new impulse to come into being.
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti in The
Collected Works, Vol. X, Krishnamurti Foundations, 2014.
"Because awareness is a view of reality free from ideas
and judgments, it is clearly impossible to define and write down what it
reveals. Anything which can be described is an idea. ... I shall therefore have
to be content with talking about the false impression which awareness removes,
rather than the truth which it reveals. The latter can only be symbolized with
words which mean little or nothing to those without a direct understanding of
the truth in question. What is true and positive is too real and too living to
be described, and to try to describe it is like putting red paint on a red
rose.
"Understanding comes through awareness. Can we, then,
approach our experience -- our sensations, feelings, and thoughts -- quite
simply, as if we had never known them before, and, without prejudice, look at
what is going on. ... There is no experience but present experience. What you
know, what you are actually aware of, is just what is happening at this moment,
and no more."
Alan
Watts in The
Wisdom of Insecurity: A Message for an Age of Anxiety, Random
House-Pantheon, 1951.
"There is no other way to succeed than to draw the mind
back every time it turns outwards and fix it in the Self. There is no need for
meditation or mantra or japa or
anything of the sort, because these are our real nature. All that is needed is
to give up thinking of objects rather than the Self. Meditation is not so much
thinking of the Self as giving up thinking of the not-Self. When you give up
thinking of outward objects and prevent your mind from going outwards by
turning it inwards and fixing it in the Self, the Self alone remains."
"Whenever a thought arises, do not be carried away by
it. You become aware of the body when you forget the Self. But can you forget
the Self? Being the Self how can you forget it? There must be two selves for
one to forget the other. It is absurd. So the Self is not depressed, nor is it
imperfect. It is ever happy."
-- Sri
Ramana Maharshi in Be As
You Are: The Teachings of Sri Ramana Maharshi, Arkana, 1985.
"Meditation is not the repetition of the word, nor the
experiencing of a vision, nor the cultivating of silence. The bead and the word
do quiet the chattering mind, but this is a form of self-hypnosis. You might as
well take a pill. ... If you say, ‘I will begin today to control my thoughts,
to sit quietly in the meditative posture, to breathe regularly,’ then you are
caught in the tricks with which one deceives oneself. Meditation is not a
matter of being absorbed in some grandiose idea or image. That only quiets one
for the moment, as a child absorbed by a toy is for the time being quiet. But
as soon as the toy ceases to be of interest, the restlessness and the mischief
begin again. Meditation is not the pursuit of an invisible path leading to some
imagined bliss. The meditative mind is seeing, watching, listening, without the
word, without comment, without opinion... attentive to to the movement of life
in all its relationships."
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti in The
Only Revolution, Harper & Row, 1970.
"We are blind and crazy most of the time...
although we do not know it. Our abstractions swirl through our heads, creating
phantom worlds of their own in which we stumble around enchanted, seeking to
escape by constructing more rooms within more mental rooms. The rooms are our
theories... what is good [or bad], what is man [or woman], time, death and god.
Most theories were learned so long ago we forgotten
they are theories; we think they're real. Yet every thought we
have is unreal, a selection, an abstraction. In the abstract rooms we cannot
see the world. It is a perceptual problem; the answer is not more thought but
more perception."
-- Arthur
Deikman in Personal
Freedom: On Finding Your Way to the Real World, Viking / Grossman,
1976.
"No need to 'improve' yourself, no need to accept
stoically your 'existential despair.' No need to drink the poison of "Each
person is alone." No need to swear allegiance to the strange world you've
been taught and learned: The road of time, isolation, meaninglessness, and the
confinement of your consciousness to the little box, labeled with your name,
out of which you peer. No need to push aside your inner sense that says,
'Something is wrong.'"
-- Idries
Shah in Thinkers
of the East, Jonathan Cape, 1972.
I'm ready
Ready for the laughing gas
I'm ready
Ready for what's next
Ready to duck
Ready to dive
Ready to say
I'm glad to be alive
I'm ready
Ready for the push, uh huh
Ready for the laughing gas
I'm ready
Ready for what's next
Ready to duck
Ready to dive
Ready to say
I'm glad to be alive
I'm ready
Ready for the push, uh huh
In the cool of the night
In the warmth of the breeze
I'll be crawling 'round
On my hands and knees
In the warmth of the breeze
I'll be crawling 'round
On my hands and knees
Ready
Ready for the gridlock
I'm ready
To take it to the street, uh huh
I'm ready for the shuffle
Ready for the deal
Ready to let go of the steering wheel
Ready for the gridlock
I'm ready
To take it to the street, uh huh
I'm ready for the shuffle
Ready for the deal
Ready to let go of the steering wheel
I'm ready
Ready for the crush, uh huh
Ready for the crush, uh huh
Zoo Station
Zoo Station
Zoo Station
Alright
Alright, alright, alright, not alright
It's alright, it's alright, it's alright, it's alright
Alright, alright, alright, not alright
It's alright, it's alright, it's alright, it's alright
Time is a train
Makes the future the past
Leaves you standing in the station
Your face pressed up against the glass
Makes the future the past
Leaves you standing in the station
Your face pressed up against the glass
-- Adam Clayton, Dave Evans, Larry Mullen, Paul Hewson •
Copyright © 1991, Universal Music Publishing Group
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